Men Made Easy

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Do you have a hard time understanding men? Do you know how much easier your life would be if you did? In this simple article we’re going to teach you some of the secrets about men that no women know.

I’ve seen countless women in troubled relationships. Usually they always ask their girlfriends for advice. This is one of the biggest mistakes that they make. The last think you want to do is ask your girlfriend for advice on your relationship.

The thing about is that when you ask then your forgetting that they don’t have feelings for your man. Which mean’s their judgment doesn’t take into account the hugest factor. Here are a few tips from Men Made Easy.

Keep in mind that friends are great for comforting just not advice. Now here are a few things that you need to understand about men.

Money is always a problem with men. In fact the majority of relationships end over some type of money problem. If you’re relationships have money problems then you need to take a step back and think who’s fault it is. If you’re man is a reckless spender then your going to have to taker matters into your own hands. You could start by saving money on the side for hard times. Other methods include explaining to him the seriousness of the problem.

Men don’t like to talk much. In fact I’ve seen relationships where a man and woman we’re sitting at a television. The woman would talk and the man would just pretend like he’s listening. It was one of the worst thing’s that I’ve ever seen. Unfortunately it’s a lot more common than I would think.

Men don’t like to hear everything. If guys don’t like to talk much than you could imagine they don’t like hearing everything either. If we don’t talk about a dream we had last night and what we’ve had for breakfast take that as a sign. Some things you should just keep to yourself.

You should try taking an interest in your man. If you’re man likes sports then you should start watching sports. This will give you guys something to talk about. Keep in mind that communication is the most important part of a relationship. If there isn’t any communication between you two then there is a huge problem. That’s why this step is important. It will give you guys something to talk about. If you’ve taken an interest in his sports and he still doesn’t make any effort to communicate you probably have bigger problems.

Some problems in relations are caused by looks. Does you man constantly put you down for being out of shape? Are you out of shape? No woman should have to subject themselves to this type of treatment. If your being put down you need to communicate that you don’t like it. If you’re man doesn’t take you seriously then you have to make him understand your serious. Especially if you’re man isn’t any better. I’ve seen cases where a man will have a huge beer belly and get mad at his woman for gaining a single pound. Women shouldn’t have to be in that situation.

Men don’t like to communicate their feelings. Communicating feelings to men is like being vulnerable. For some reason men just don’t like to talk about things like that. If you’re man is one of those guys then you have to show some understand. Being a man myself it’s very hard for me to talk about my feelings. Part of the reason goes back to when I was a child. My dad taught me to never show my feelings. It was all part of how he was teaching me to become a man. For some reason men just don’t show their feelings.

Communicate everything. Everything in a relationship needs to be communicated. That doesn’t mean what you had for breakfast. You have to let your man know exactly how you feel. However let’s say that you tell him how you feel and he doesn’t like it. For example, if you told your man that you’re packing your bags and leaving tonight would he let you? If he does then you might want to find something better. Keep in mind that you can find something a lot better if you tried. However if there is a lot of dependency issues then I would consult friends for this type of situation.